Can’t you stop looking at that girl/boy knowing that he/she just saved you some time and that he/she is waiting for you? Do you know how to flirt? What do you do when you see a person you really want to flirt with? Or do you just sit there and admire the scenery thinking about what could possibly be going on inside that head of his/her? This is the true meaning.
OK, fine, you don”t have to spend loads of money on a agency. You can create your own flirting website and through the magic of the internet, you can have the pleasure of realizing your dream of being irresistible to the opposite sex. It is absolutely insane and hilarious, almost irritating to wait for someone who seems to have “Everything” just lying around.
Unfortunately, Emma found that the chances are that you will most likely spend much more time fantasizing about your fantasy rather than living it. At some point in your life, you will probably buy a book or attend a workshop and, in the meantime, you will have forgotten how to flirt.
Don’t worry. That fetish you have been harboring for a very long time now is called flirting, shyly called by some “flirtation”. It’s kind of like using a sex toy you just got from blissfulcherry.com. If you don’t know what it is, don’t worry. Flirting can be simple unconscious behavior like wondering, “I wonder if he/she is going to hit on me”, or “I wonder if he/she will like me”, or “I wonder if he/she is interested”.
When you see someone you really want to be with, don’t mess things up by having a mental altar situation and conjuring up all the crazy things you would say in all the right words: “please Mr/Miss Good-lookin’, if you please pick me up at __ at 3:00 PM on Wednesday, I will be Pickles.”
Other Tips to Consider
Out of all the tips on flirting, it has to be the most obvious one for me to hear. You are thinking about the other person, dude. What do you want from them? Do you want friendship or something more serious? This is not for the weak at heart. It’s for those men and women who are looking for love and are sick and tired of the routine life. You are going to break out of normal patterns, aren’t you?
But then, you are looking for love, aren’t you? You are looking for something deeper. Something exclusive. A proposal? A proposal?
And yet, the person who offers it is free to refuse your proposal at any time of their choosing. So at least you are a man or a woman who is giving something, giving out of your own volition and not because someone else pushed them into it. It wasn’t your choice, so you are still kind of giving out, even if not consciously so.
Back to the “potential” Blurt
The Scientific American suggests that if you are the one who will carry it out, then you should write it down. It doesn’t have to be on a piece of paper or on your computer. It could be on the deepest level, on the most affecting level. It could be your potential personality, your Wentworth Girly impersonation, worst-case scenario. Whatever you have cooking up on your mind, write it all down on a piece of paper. And then make sure you clean it. You don’t want any Steps to read it on your computer screen or iPhone, for that matter. It has to be perfect.
And then make sure you wear the item on your next date. You really don’t have to use a microphone or a voice recorder, though many choose to do so. Magnetic communication could be a simple letter or a single-word phrase.
And lastly, after the date, think about how that crush of yours seems to be carrying the evening so beautifully now. I mean, it wasn’t like you were going to wear this thing on your date, but the actual act itself. Actually, think about how different the evening would have been if you actually Conceitedly attempted to seduce this person.
Oh, I almost forgot. To make sure your prospect holds the evening curtain at a future date, throw a few questions at them in the evening session. Here’s a hint: Wouldn’t it have been better if they already knew the answers?